What We Call Love

Love is not the majesty proclamation
we were promised.
It is smaller, stranger.

It is the way you know
which silence I need
before I ask.
The way you hand me water
after an argument,
as if saying:
we are still alive.

Love is learning
which wounds are sacred
and which can be touched.

It is choosing not to win
a fight
because winning would cost
the future.

Love may at times resemble patience.
It may even seem like departure.

Either way,
it leaves fingerprints
on everything
we become.